Diagnosing Mom
I had noticed a sign here and there; I brushed them off telling myself that I am overreacting. I told myself I was imagining things that were not really happening.
It was mid morning on a Saturday I was watching a movie when Mom came in complaining about how bad her vision has gotten while chugging down yet another glass of water. She sat watching the movie for a few minutes then got up.
“All this water I have been drinking just makes me go to the bathroom so many times”
“Do you mind if I check your blood sugar?” “I think you may have diabetes”.
I said a pray hoping I was wrong, I thought to myself how cruel this all is.
5, 4,3,2…….. the meter counted down before displaying the results — 24.3mmol/L
It had been over five hours since she eat her breakfast. Not that it mattered much with that high a reading but I asked anyway.
“Have you eaten anything since breakfast? “
“No I have not, why are you asking?”
She has, stage three, breast cancer and now I was about to tell her she has diabetes. I felt bad took a deep breath before telling her.
An hour later we were sitting in our local emergency room where she got officially diagnosed.
Posted: November 9th, 2009 under Journeying through life, Life & Diabetes.
Comments: 3
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Comment from Barbara
Time: November 9, 2009, 9:45 AM
Oh, Adjoa, I’m so sorry. I know that those must have been the hardest words you’ve ever had to utter. My prayers go out to you and your mom. It’s a blessing she has you by her side to guide her through this next challenge.
Barb
Comment from Ellen
Time: November 10, 2009, 3:34 PM
Sorry to hear of yet another diagnosis and what a difficult thing to tell your mom. Big hug!
Comment from Nan
Time: November 20, 2009, 10:26 PM
that is quite a blow, especially after a cancer diagnosis too…i’m sorry. i am a breast cancer survivor and my daughter is type 1…pretty bad diagnoses…but opportunities to discover our strength too. i wish your mom the best…
(i love that picture of her…it’s very artsy!)
















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